Friday, December 31, 2004

This month's issue of National Geographic has an article about caffeine that mentions introverts. This is taken from a review by Dan Kincaid in The Arizona Republic online.

Caffeine, the "world's most popular psychoactive drug," is the top story [in National Geographic this month]. Despite such side effects as jittery nerves and sleeplessness, people around the world crave the buzz and energy that caffeine delivers. These range from an MIT medical researcher who gulps down more than 600 milligrams of the stuff daily in his coffee to sharpen his faculties to Buddhist monks at an Indian monastery who help fuel their devotions by sipping butter tea. Finns ingest the most caffeine; the average Finn consumes 145 grams of the alkaloid a year. New research indicates extroverts are less sensitive to caffeine than introverts; pain relievers containing caffeine work better than the same meds alone; the robusta beans of cheaper coffee brands provide twice as much caffeine as the arabica beans beloved by connoisseurs; and cutting off caffeine for a day and a half boosts blood flow to the brain, possibly explaining why people who go cold turkey get splitting headaches... ."

So there you have it ... introverts in the news :-)
If you like the old Hollywood glamor days, Aviator is a fun movie to see right now on the big screen. The actresses who play Katherine Hepburn, Ava Gardner, Faith Domergue and Jean Harlow are just marvelous and Leondardo Capriano does a really great job of acting Howard Hughes. Seeing Hepburn and Gardener characters reminds us that the old Hollywood stars were glamorous because they were also very intelligent. It's a winning combination. I also personally loved seeing soft and carefully manicured hairstyles again. I secretly hope the trend turns back to that before I leave the planet. I have never gotten used to helicopter blade hairdo.
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Wednesday, December 29, 2004



Unfortunately this may be one of the first signs of Uranus in Pisces, rising water with electrifying shocks waves. Pisces is not the most gentle sign though it uses that disguise.

Tuesday, December 28, 2004

It's wintertime and I miss the snows of my childhood in blizzard-y Chicago and the beautiful snows of my college days in Minnesota, so here are some snowmen jokes that are just really cute.




In memory of my days in Washington, DC and suburbs of Chicago building snowmen, having snowball fights and building forts for even better snowball fights. Here's to hanging mittens on the radiator to dry!
Someone sent me an email at Christmastime wanting me to help them publicize their product and I've lost the email. Please resend and I'll take a look at what you're offering.
I've been using Ingrid Cordeiro's skin products this winter and my skin has never felt this smooth or moist before. Usually this time of year in San Diego, it's a constant battle not to feel like an alligator.

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If your face tends to get dry in winter, try the EGF cream+ for dryer skin.

Monday, December 27, 2004

The New York times TOP TEN BOOKS OF 2004, many about American history.

Sunday, December 26, 2004

Pakistan is experiencing its second Saturn Return soon, together with all of you who have Saturn and Pluto conjunct in Leo ... boms away is not a bad rendering of that symbolism.

From the New York Times today: "... Nearly a year after Dr. Khan's arrest, secrets of his nuclear black market continue to uncoil, revealing a vast global enterprise. But the inquiry has been hampered by discord between the Bush administration and the nuclear watchdog, and by Washington's concern that if it pushes too hard for access to Dr. Khan, a national hero in Pakistan, it could destabilize an ally. As a result, much of the urgency has been sapped from the investigation, helping keep hidden the full dimensions of the activities of Dr. Khan and his associates.

"There is no shortage of tantalizing leads. American intelligence officials and the I.A.E.A., working separately, are still untangling Dr. Khan's travels in the years before his arrest. Investigators said he visited 18 countries, including Syria, Saudi Arabia and Egypt, on what they believed were business trips, either to buy materials like uranium ore or sell atomic goods...."

Dr. Khan had been under surveillance by American intelligence for three decades.

21. Incredible as it may seem, one of these songs also made the list of Rolling Stone's Top 500 Songs. Which one?
Macarena.
MacArthur Park
Feelings
How Deep Is Your Love
Achy Breaky Heart
In-A-Gadda-Da-Vida

Try the New York Times News Trivia Quiz for 2004 HERE.

Saturday, December 25, 2004

She took the Introverts' Discovery Course ... and had an astrology reading ... three months ago and look what's happened!


"Dear Nancy--

I want you to know how wonderful it has been to meet you in 2004. You've taught me so much and have brought so much healing into my life.

I must let you know that yesterday I got engaged! I am so excited. And no doubt you had something to do with it!

Much love, joy and peace in 2005 and beyond!"

MK in San Francisco

Friday, December 24, 2004

The Top 10 Key Points About Energy and Energy Exchange
by Thomas J. Leonard of CoachVillle

You can also read this TopTen here.
1. Everything has energy, given we (and all objects) have electrons, etc.
2. Energy flows within us, between us, among us, and through everything. It's MOVING.
3. There are various grades of energy, just like gasoline/octane levels.The more developed one is personally, the higher--grade energy they need.
4. Highly-developed individuals are so efficient, they consume hardly any energy. They've gone solar.
5. Boundaries are a way to protect yourself from the lower-grade/toxic energy of others.
6. ?
7. Raising your standards is a way to highly-tune/upgrade your systems to perform well with high-quality energy.
8. Energy can heal, harm, deplete or enrich a person. The highly-sensitized person is VERY susceptible.
9. A discussion of energy and grades of energy evokes reactions, especially among those whose energy is not as clear or clean. (Sorry.)
10. The Irresistible Attraction/Personal Foundation/Reserve process is a great way to both increase your quality of energy and also help you to consume very little energy. It works.

Thomas knew what we psychics and metaphysicians know. The more aware you are, the more you are certain to be around certain people and avoid certain other people. Believe it. Your mental and physical health can depend on it.

What's the best way to raise your octane and go solar? Meditation. It also helps to be on a spiritual path and to consult the wisdom of the ages, such as the I Ching. An astrology reading can point you in the right direction. In my readings I indicate the best spiritual path for you. Here are some basic guidelines according to your North Moon Nodes:

NNode in Aries: Develop a place for yourself in the time and space. Be. Here. Now. Be alive.

NNode in Taurus: Develop your moral awareness. Examine your values. Create boundaries. Define yourself.

NNode in Gemini: Talk about what you know. Learn the languages of other people. Get out and about, mix it up and share.

NNode in Cancer: Get in touch with your feelings and support emotional well being in others.

NNode in Leo: Become a warm human being. Be a hearth that others can sit by and warm themselves. Let others close to you.

NNode in Virgo: Focus. Discriminate. Look at what people do, not at their beautiful souls.

NNode in Libra: Meet other people more than half way. Learn other viewpoints. Give someone else the will to live.

NNode in Scorpio: Get lost in other people. Merge energy. Share your soul. Bare your soul. Surrender to the full experience of love and co-creation.

NNode in Sagittarius: Meditate. Get in touch with nature. See the patterns and the whole. See the future. Know the past.

NNode in Capricorn: Develop self-discipline. Do your duty. Take care of others. Provide on every conceivable level for as many people as possible.

NNode in Aquarius: Detach. Watch your own life like it was a movie. Be meditated. Let the energy come through you. Work the energy. Reveal the future.

NNode in Pisces: Get lost in the Whole. Float like a cork in the ocean. Let go and let it all be.

Thursday, December 23, 2004

Saturn Return in Leo?


A reader wrote: about 7 years ago i met and fell in love with a libra women to me it felt like my search was over but three years into our friendship we got into a fight and haven't seen her for the past 4 years i just turned 30 a week before turning 29 i got fired lost my apartment lost all of my friend everything i lost i know it is because of my saturn return but im having trouble understanding what it is im to learn from all of this im finding really hard to let go of everything in my life somethings i can understand but everthing where is the justice in that i live a pretty simple life and i really liked my life for the most part please help me understand what my saturn return is trying to teach me

If your Saturn Return is about to begin -- Saturn is going into Leo very soon ... begin HERE with articles of importance for your situation. You are also entitled to a FREE mini Saturn Return reading. Send an email to parklanenancy@hotmail.com to requedt your free reading today.

Wednesday, December 22, 2004



Here's an article from Bloomberg about why introverts win as traders ... I wish I could have just linked to it but the way Bloomberg does links is just mpossible! So here's the article in full quote from BLOOMBERG.

Here's How You Can Get a Bigger Bonus Next Year
by Mark Gilbert
Dec. 23 (Bloomberg) -- Disappointed with your 2004 bonus? Traders, it's time to ditch those New Year resolutions to build bigger biceps or slim that waistline, and give your personality a workout to earn more in 2005.

Be an introvert. Keep your emotions stable. Stay open to new experiences. Oh, and try not to be misled by randomness, stop thinking you are in control of the situation, and don't expect any help from your boss.

Those are the conclusions of a study on what makes a good trader by four U.K. academics specializing in psychology and behavioral science. To get answers, the quartet interviewed 118 London-based traders and managers -- only two of them were women - - from four unidentified investment banks, three with U.S. headquarters and one based in Europe.

The researchers are trying to fill an information gap. They discovered that while banks are willing to pay millions of dollars to their top profit-generators, they don't know how to spot or develop potential Masters of the Universe. Until he goes ``ka- ching'' or ``ka-boom,'' a trader's bosses have no idea whether they have hired a star or a turkey.

Are You Special?
The traders and managers we spoke to were almost all clear that superior performers had 'special' qualities, and yet no-one was able to articulate clearly the precise set of skills and attributes implicated,'' the researchers wrote in their book. There seem to be few resources directed toward identifying what makes a top trader, despite intense speculation on the subject, the large costs of recruiting a new trader and giving them several years to see how potential develops into skill.''

The results of the study are in a new book, Traders: Risks, Decisions and Management in Financial Markets (Oxford University Press, 244 pages). The authors are Mark Fenton-O'Creevy, senior lecturer in organizational behavior at the Open University Business School; Nigel Nicholson, professor of organizational behavior at London Business School; Emma Soane, senior lecturer at Kingston Business School; and Paul Willman, a professorial fellow of Balliol College, Oxford.

Using interviews, questionnaires and tests, the researchers tried to find the personality traits that make some traders more successful than others. "Personality accounts for significant variation in earnings,'' the investigation found. "The higher performing traders in our sample are emotionally stable introverts who are open to experience.''

Keyboard Impotence
One of the tests featured a chart on a computer screen. The line on the graph started at zero, and then increased or decreased every half-second for 50 seconds. The traders were told that pressing keyboard keys Z, X or C might affect how the chart developed. When the chart stopped moving, they were asked how much influence they thought their typing had on the chart.
The test was a placebo. The typing had zero effect on how the graph developed. While some traders realized the chart was predetermined, others were convinced they had full control. (The mental image of a guy in shirtsleeves bashing impotently at a keyboard, convinced he's making a difference, is very appealing. Not so different from what he does for 10 hours a day, maybe.)
"The results produced a statistically significant negative association between illusion of control and both total remuneration and desk profits, but not risk management, analytical ability or people skills,'' the authors wrote. "There is a clear case for saying illusion of control is associated with poorer performance and lower earnings.''

In other words, while the traders fooled by the graph were as competent as their less gullible peers, their earnings were typically lower.

Thick-Skinned Introverts
When everyone else is selling, there's often money to be made by buying, and vice versa. You have to have a thick skin, though, to go against the crowd. "Introversion insulates traders against social distractions including the need to be liked and accepted; useful especially where there is a need to seek or tolerate contrarian positions,'' the academics said.

They also found that traders' behavior typically changed as bonus time approached. "Traders expecting a good performance (and thus bonus) outcome will be reluctant to put those anticipated gains at risk, whereas a trader anticipating a poor outcome will be more willing to take risks that avoid that negative outcome,'' they said.

"Training-Free Zone"
Think your boss is useless? You may well be right. The authors reserved their most scathing comments for the way trading rooms are managed.

"Trader management is a training-free zone,'' they said. "In a combined 70 years of experience, the authors have never encountered so little management development in sophisticated organizations of vast resource.''

Banks are happy to leave traders alone provided they are making money. Managers only intervene when a trade has gone sour; post-mortems are held when money is lost, with scant investigation of why some trades are profitable.

"The combination of trader autonomy, reliance on bonus and management spans of control generates an environment where managers see themselves as a safety net rather than as creators of value or profit,'' the professors said. "Put another way, trading environments rely too much on managing outputs.''

If the 2004 bonus fell short, try these New Year resolutions from the authors to shake the money tree harder next year:
  • -- Trade more often; the study suggests the best way to test a market hypothesis may be to implement it in a trade, securing long-term learning benefits from taking on short-term risks.
  • -- Spend as much time examining your profitable trades as you do autopsying your failures.
  • -- And try to stay cool when your spreadsheet is awash with losses. Losing money makes you want to "avoid its recurrence at all costs,'' the study says, even when random events are the cause. In other words, sometimes, stuff happens; it's not always about you.

    We've been saying this for years. See our article on Warren Buffet and the characteristics which made him one of the richest men in the world.

Also see TOPTEN Ways Warren Buffet is the World's Greatest Investor AND INTROVERT


Tuesday, December 21, 2004


2005 is the Year of the Rooster

Write for your free Mercury Retrograde calendar from Nancy R. Fenn. Send an email to parklanenancy@hotmail.com with mercury retrograde in the subject line. Be sure to include your mailing addres so I can send it to you.

It's good ti know when the retrogrades will be each year. There are three of them. This year they take place in fire signs. It will be especially important to go slow!

Remember the rules for retrogrades ... do things that begin with RE. Revise, review, reconsider, renovate, rethink ....

Here's some great information from Dr. Cyndi Thomas, ND

The great expense of poor food choices is charged to both our bodies and the future, as well as to our wallets. A recent experimental trip to a large fast food chain cost $17.26 for four sandwiches and four "regular fries." For my $17.26, I got 2.80 pounds, net weight, of "food," once I had thrown out all the packaging.

In reality, the nutritional value of this "food" was very low (lots of empty calories!)This amounted to over six dollars per pound, which is triple the average price of organic foods in a typical health food store. And most people think that fast food is cheap, and organic food is expensive!

For $1.35 a day on Juice Plus+ (2 fruit and 2 vegetable capsules) you get the nutritional equivalent of several pounds of 17 vine-ripened fruits and vegetables.

Forget what you ate until today. What you eat from now on is vitally important to your future. Food choices are a fork in the road that is always in front of you, where one way leads to discomfort and disease, and the other leads to well-being.

Wishing you the best in your food choices this holiday season and in the future...


Monday, December 20, 2004

Their song is the sound of subversiveness, luring us from the orderly world above the waves down to the phantasmagoric realm of dreams, and the harder we try to ignore what they are singing, the more we desperately want to hear it.






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The yellow bands from LIVE STRONG (Lance Armstrong's program for cancer survivors) are here now. Would you be willing to wear one for my nephew? Let me know and I'll send it to you for free.

Visit Lance Armstrong's website and read the good news about the survivors.
II think in the Little Mermaid when Hans Christian Anderson is describing how she tries to walk on "real" feet because she loves her sailor so much and wants to be with him -- and how it feels like walking on shards of glass -- I think it is like that for us infps, the agonizing things we endure in order to be close to people who are not sensitive and who will never know what a sacrifice we are making to meet their social customs and desires, rather than our own.

Saturday, December 18, 2004

Here's a very funny article about everyone's needs at the holidays, including introverts. I could swear this person read my article about holiday hoopla :-)

Friday, December 17, 2004

What's it like to have a month of coaching with The IntrovertZCoach?

I've really enjoyed talking to you about xxx and the other good things in life we've shared. Most of all I've felt your genuine love for people and your wisdom and understanding and empathy is palpable!

This time last month I was frightened and anxious, with a good helping of self loathing thrown in for good measure -- this month I'm under no illusion that life is going to get much easier for me but I feel able to cope , happier with myself and my abilities and excited about the possibilities and blessings I have in my life.

Would you like to have a month of coaching with The IntrovertZCoach? Unlimited eMail access for one month .... email me for more information.

Wednesday, December 15, 2004

Welcome Words about the Website

Dear Nancy

I have learnt so much since finding out about personality type two months ago!!! Knowing about the strengths of your type is wonderful -- but I think it's even more liberating to understand about the challenges of your type -- having this insight makes the way you respond to circumstances so much easier to deal with. I realize that my over emotional outburst over the weekend is about who I am -- we feel things very powerfully including the not so good stuff -- it goes with the territory! It doesn't mean that you're unhinged! The feelings are wonderful when it's about seeing people grow and develop or feeling love for others but not so good when you can feel other people's pain and discomfort too (or when you have a big disappointment in your profrssional life!!!)

I can also see how being with Xxx helps me balance -- he puts forward the other side of the coin for me and it helps me to calm down. That's not to denigrate the power of those feelings but it's also about realizing the strengths of other types and how we can help each other. In turn I know I've helped him in expressing his feelings. I read Bill's story on the web sight who is an intp and used to be a university lecturer until the powers that be got rid of him, despite the fact that his students really appreciated him. He reminded me so much of xx -- his passion for science and ideas/knowledge, his lack of competitiveness and ability to see what support people needed to learn .... I really felt for this man on the web site -- it's such a loss to teaching!

I loved what Bill said about people telling him as a child to smile more -- we used to have a neighbour who would call out everyday to me on my way home from school -- "'smile love - it might never happen'" sometimes I'd be so deep in thought ....

It's really interesting to hear you say that poetry is the language of the infp -- I often think in terms of poetry -- ideas come to me, they often come with a line of a poem I remember.

I also loved the article about the Biggest Toad of All -- it's so true that 'shyness' is being pathologised these days. Alan Bennett is one of those writers I go back to when I'm feeling down -- his humour is delightful and touching -- I have a copy of Telling Tales which is about (amongst other things) his childhood in Leeds in Yorkshire -- it makes you laugh out loud. One of the writers on the site talked about the humour of introverts and I think this is sometimes missing from type talk -- introverts do have a sense of humour.

The stuff about territoriality also made a lot of sense to me -- not about things -- but about my personal space. I have very rarerly enjoyed having people in my home -- but I've often felt bad about this -- everybody else seems ok with welcoming people into their homes and I have sometimes enjoyed visiting people in their homes -- but I can't seem to relax with people in my home -- it feels like an awful invasion.... I usually meet people outside in cafes etc only family and very close friends -- of which there are few -- get in! It's good to feel that I don't have to worry about this anymore.

And I think that this has been the most important thing I've learnt and now really feel is the case -- these things do not matter -- and when I no longer worry about them I have so much more energy for important things. Today I spoke to a group of xxx -- they are usually a group of tough cookies, demanding more support and money and being very challenging -- but today I was so calm and purposefully quiet -- we had such a good meeting and achieved loads and I think that I left them looking forward to the work we're doing together.

Thanks for the website Nancy -- it's brilliant -- I think I may have read most of it now -- I would like to contribute myself and definitely will do soon.
Nancy's article Anima and Animus is featured by Rachel Cox at LiveJournal on the Divine Masculine and Feminine.

Here is Rachel's drawing called Tears of the Black Butterfly.

One client expains why my readings are different ...

Hi Nancy!

I go to you for my chart readings because you are not a cookbook interpreter overflowing with words such as "partile"! :-) Maybe we should crown you Ms. Jupiter - your fundamental energies seem to bring you in touch with so much more of the info. around all of us that we miss. Just like in the description of the fire element - you have prophetic visions because you intuit, you explore/do, you live and you know!

Thank you! I so want to arm myself with helpful info. to get things in good order for the near future, and that is why I have come to you for guidance. Love!
1) When I die, I want to die like my grandfather--who died
peacefully in his sleep. Not screaming like all the
passengers in his car."
--Author Unknown

2) Advice for the day: If you have a lot of tension and you
get a headache, do what it says on the aspirin bottle:
"Take two aspirin" and "Keep away from children."
--Author Unknown

3) "Oh, you hate your job? Why didn't you say so? There's a
support group for that. It's called EVERYBODY, and they
meet at the bar."
--Drew Carey

5) "If a woman has to choose between catching a fly ball
and saving an infant's life, she will choose to save the
infant's life without even considering if there is a man on
base."
--Dave Barry

8) "A study in the Washington Post says that women have
better verbal skills than men. I just want to say to the
authors of that study: "Duh."
--Conan O'Brien

10) "I think that's how Chicago got started. Bunch of
people in New York said, 'Gee, I'm enjoying the crime
and the poverty, but it just isn't cold enough. Let's
go west.'"
--Richard Jeni

12) "Sometimes I think war is God's way of teaching us
geography."
--Paul Rodriguez

16) "Suppose you were an idiot ... And suppose you were a
member of Congress... But I repeat myself."
--Mark Twain

18) "Women need a reason to have sex. Men just need a
place."
--Billy Crystal
DIE INSEL DER SIRENEN

WENN er denen, die ihm gastlich waren,
spaet, nach ihrem Tage noch, da sie
fragten nach den Fahrten und Gefahren,
still berichtete: er wusste nie,
wie sie schrecken und mit welchem jaehen
Wort sie wenden, dass sie so wie er
in dem blau gestillten Inselmeer
die Vergoldung jener Inseln saehen,
deren Anblick macht, dass die Gefahr
umschlaegt; denn nun ist sie nicht im Tosen
und im Wueten, wo sie immer war.
Lautlos kommt sie ueber die Matrosen,
welche wissen, dass es dort auf jenen
goldnen Inseln manchmal singt ‑,
und sich blindlings in die Ruder lehnen,
wie umringt
von der Stille, die die ganze Weite
in sich hat und an die Ohren weht,
so als waere ihre andre Seite
der Gesang, dem keiner widersteht.

Monday, December 13, 2004

About Taping Your Session with Me

You are welcome to tape it. I can't and this is why. I have extremely strong kinetic energy, very powerful aura, and I break tape machines. I cause them to not function. People would bring them to my sessions so we could get around this and their's would not work either even though they worked perfectly up til then. One time I went to a rebirther who had also been a professional in broadcasting. He had a room full of state of the art recording equipment that he used for his sessions, which lasted for hours. I got 5 tapes from him and only two of them had anything on it He could not believe it.

I could.

So that's my story and I'm sticking to it. Please don't feel you will miss anything. Most of my readings are unforgettable in that they shift energy tremendously and move the context of your questioning and transform your relationship to yourself rather than details and odds and ends. Though I do get specific and you can perhaps jot down dates and things.

Sunday, December 12, 2004

Looking for a great stocking stuffer?

click through to buy from amazon.com right now

Paraphrased from a review at amazon.com (I couldn't say it better myself.) This is a wonderful, truthful "Eye of God" look into the 12 astrological signs with a great sense of humor attached to it.... We want to assume others live from the higher octave of their sign, but most people do not and it usually seems to play out just as Hazel [Dixon-Cooper] describes. There is great fun in reading this book and I enjoyed it thoroughly. But what comes through also, is that the peculiarities of each sign is what gives us a world of excitement and interest. If everyone were perfect, it would not be half as much fun...This makes a wonderful stocking stuffer or gift to anyone who has to deal with others or would just like to figure them out. We all need a bird's eye view once in a while and especially, to look at ourselves without the rose colored glasses!!!

From Nancy: Some of my astrology students complain that my classes and readings are "too positive". I have a Stellium in the 9th house and that isn't going to change. I'm one of the most positive people by nature you will ever meet. But for those of you who want your reality down and dirty, this book is honestly just hysterical. As a matter of fact, most of my clients are New Age people, very spiritual and are using the higher octave energies of their signs but this might be just the gift for your brother-in-law who torments you for your spiritual approach to things :-) or your Scorpio mother-in-law, the one Dixon-Cooper describes as "like Lady MacBeth on crack."
Note from Nancy:

Let's move from the brain to the heart, from the control of logic to the leap of intuition. Let's develop spiritually.

Being "clueless", as one young man put it, is actually a step toward being tuned in, toward being guide-able. How can God reach you if you're so certain about everything? It's really sort of amusing when you think about it. "God, don't bother me. I'm busy making up my mind, selecting the correct alternative. Leave me alone. I have to concentrate so I'll know what's best for me/us/them etc."

If you'd like to develop your intuition, consider a month of coaching for $200, all you can eat! Or the Intuitive Deveopment Course. Click link to sample.
My grandfather fought in World War I, my father fought in World War II, my ex-husband and the father of my only child fought in VietNam.

Regardless of the right or wrong of the war in Iraq, there are young men over there who need to know that they and their buddies are not risking their lives in vain. They need to know that someone cares about their sacrifice over and above the decision of their superiors.


Saturday, December 11, 2004

ON THIS DAY



On this day in 1941, Germany and Italy declared war on the United States. One of the greater differences of this transit of Pluto through Sagittarius is that we have an enemy and are for all intents and purposes at war with a country which does not do us the honor of declaring war.

One of the real battles that is going on in the world at the moment is for proper conduct of war ... a tradition hard won through centuries on Europe's fields of battle where a man is identified with a uniform, declares his intentions, alerts the enemy and conducts battle in the open and only against other uniformed men, properly identified.

Part of bringing the Third World into harmony with values of the First World would be to instill some of this tradition into the practice of war. The Geneva Convention is one of the more salient components of this hard won tradition. If one reads military history, one is struck throughout by the reluctance of most men to wage war; however, while it is still a necessity there were some rules of conducts which made it, ironically, almost civilized.

Holding little children hostage, poisoning political opponents and ramming airplanes into buildings without a formal declaration of war are detestible and cowardly acts that belong in the repertoire of deranged teenagers or Livia, conniving wife of Caesar Augustus, who spawned Tiberius the father of deranged Caligula and his son Nero.

Friday, December 10, 2004

Let's Try Preventive Healthcare
It is not the Government's or the Doctor's Responsibility to Protect You from the Consequences of Your Own Poor Choices [even though they're trying their best]

Half a million people in the USA alone are taking Juice Plus my other favorite proactive health care item. Use of Juice Pluce is up 20% in the last 5 years.


You've heard me say this before ... by the time you get to the doctor, it's too late. This is a warm but urgent wake up call. This may come even as shocking news to some ... it isn't the doctor's or the government's responsibility to take care of your health, it's your responsibility.

I think sometimes we go to doctor saying, "fix my heartburn so I can continue overeating hot greasy food late into the night and on the run in my car". Or "heal my cancer so I can return to the toxic relationship that spawned it" (sorry for the graphic language). Or "cure my diabetes so I can eat all the chocolate and marshmallows I want veged out in front of the tv".

Things run in famlies because patterns of eating and patterns of processing emotions run in families, not because you are doomed to what runs in your family. You can change! You aren't doomed to anything and it isn't the government's responsibility to protect you from your own poor choices in life :-)

There are some great books to help with choices and some great products. Visit my website for more general information. CLICK HERE.

In addition, Sky Jeanette offers seminars, DVDs, CDs and other tools for educating yourself. We feel that the more you know, the more you will turn to Juice Plus or another natural products for preventive health care. These products help restore your body's own natural ability to heal itself. In some cases, like with me, what seems like genuine miracles occur.

Visit Sky's website if you live here in San Diego and learn more. Make this coming year the one you choose to take responsibility for your own health and well being.

You can also call Sky at 619.683.8096 for more information, support, products, education and learning tools. Please tell her you read about it in Nancy'[s BLOG.

Thursday, December 09, 2004

http://www.amanita.at/e/e-new.htm For those interested, this is an article describing the way the election was predicted and how it might be improved. The Amanita site tries to predict market trends and other events. Personally I think most astrologers wanted Kerry to win and let this color their thinking. They could not see clearly what was plain to see even without astrology. Astrology is just one of many tools of extending perception. The most powerful thing is to become a clear person so that one can see -- or to become invisible it is sometimes called.

As the eastern religions teach, we must learn to divest of emotions and expectations so we can see what is happening and record it clearly. We may or may not like what we see but that way we are in power. We can sense the way the energy is going and go with it. This has advantages that transcend words but are well encapsulated in martial arts.
Classic Poem a Day

Sign up for a Classic Poem a Day Have a classic poem delivered to your email inbox each day. What a treat and a joy!! I enjoy this service from About.com and I thought some of the other infp's might as well.

Wednesday, December 08, 2004

In today's mail ... the Saturn Return Master

Question:

Dear Nancy,

Thank you for the update...I appreciate it, and I appreciate the Saturn reading, too. When you send me the reading could you include the answer to this concern: I thought the Saturn return was for, like two years or something; as I read through the wonderful articles you've created (it is very clear that you ARE the Saturn Return Master) and enjoyed the beautiful artwork, I saw that it is, literally, but for several days and that it can be active in more than one 'period of time', as several showed up in two different months.

I was looking up my son's Saturn in Cancer first, as he has had well, a challenging life so far, and he's up for his first return and the Cancer info is much larger and varied - I learned a lot there. And, I realized for the first time that I had HIM at my first Saturn return. So, is it just the 3 to 4 days that Saturn returns to your birth site?

You really do a beautiful job with a wide ring of viewpoints...admire you, indeed.

Thanks again, Xxx

Answer: the Saturn Return is an exact "hit" three different times during a period of about a year. The length of time it stays on the degree varies a lot -- sometimes just a day or two and sometimes almost a month if there is retrograde involved. Also sometimes it is on the degree only once, not three times. It is always signficant which one it is for you.

The feeling of the Saturn Return warms up as much as a year ahead of time. The EFFECTS of the Saturn Return last for the next 30 years in a sort of meltdown or trickledown way. Then you are ready for the rewards of your hard work for consciousness and personal growth at your second Return (58-60 years old). Those few who have remained completely unconscious may die after their second Return due to the tremendous cost healthwise of the stress that comes from living a lie.

As many of you kjnow, both my parents died at their second Saturn Return which is one of the reasons for my lifelong interest in Saturn Return.

I hope to get the Saturn in Leo pages up to date soon.

Tuesday, December 07, 2004

Loneliness is a Word I Can't Overuse by Steve


This may be why infp's are called The Poet as well as The Healer. This is from Steve, who visited my website, The IntrovertZCoach.

Steve writes ...

I love reading these articles and reminiscing about my youth, and what it was like to grow up introverted.

Loneliness is a word I can't overuse.

Perhaps out of respect for my family, it's something I don't enjoy sharing, but when you look into people's eyes, you know that there's something different. Is it them? No, can't be, they can't all be different. It's a conspiracy by the entire world to segregate me and my self-involved personality into thinking that there may be something ideally different about me! Geez, that really makes sense.

Yes, I am different, in so many ways.

Sometimes I want to just stay in my room and imagine a better place, oh wait I'm doing this now…

I was driving home with my brother and his girlfriend, when she asks me why I liked Lost in Translation – because she just didn't get it. My reply was with candor, that she's really lucky the movie didn't translate to her, she'd never felt it. A sudden chill and the hair on my arms rose, as I wanted to describe the feeling that instant.

Maybe she'll understand when she gets older, and remember me looking away that night in the car….

People have tried to change me, my mother especially. Consider it her biggest challenge to welcome her quiet child into a world of screaming, fighting, confused extroverts.

So she taught me math. And to this day I'm great at it, even though I hate math with a passion. But logic and self-esteem from sports doesn't overwrite what's been placed at birth. Nature or Nurture? I think it's in that order, makes sense to me, so simple…isn't it?

Ok, so now close your eyes, and picture a world dominated by introverts.

Can you?

Really, can you?

I can.

We live in it.

It took me 30 years to picture it. Now as the sun rises from the clouds in this rainy Monday afternoon, I remember the movies I loved, and the stories we tell our children, the laughter from our past, and the music that fill our hearts.

We’re like a flower.

There certainly are many more leaves, they bloom faster, and they take up all the space, but when we bloom, boy do we shine.

Enough so that you no longer see the leaves and the colors of the flower remind you that nature does create beautiful things.

It's ok to let the flower bloom.

Thanks Nancy, you’re wonderful.

Thanks, Steve, YOU'RE wonderful. No one has a way with words like an infp.
The Introvert Advantage or ...
Why Corporate America Can't Build: A Sentence

The New York Times has an article today entitled Why Corporate America Can't Build: A Sentence, which is of great interest to introverts. It seems emails are becoming a nightmare in business because people don't know how to write them. Here's an example from the article, an example of an email a purchasing manager at a construction company in Virginia wrote to his staff:
"E-mails - that are received from Jim and I are not either getting open or not being responded to .... I wanted to let everyone know that when Jim and I are sending out e-mails (example- who is to be picking up parcels) I am wanting for who ever the e-mail goes to to respond back to the e-mail. Its important that Jim and I knows that the person, intended, had read the e-mail. This gives an acknowledgment that the task is being completed. I am asking for a simple little 2 sec. Note that says 'ok', 'I got it', or Alright.' "

The construction company's human resources director enrolled the purchasing manager in a writing course.

"E-mail has just erupted like a weed, " the article continues, "and instead of considering what to say when they write, people now just let thoughts drool out onto the screen. ... It has companies at their wits' end."

Guess what kind of people "just let thoughts drool out onto the screen"? Extroverts, of course, the proponderance of those in business management.

If you stop and think about it, introverts, writing is our forte. That's what were BEST at. Every door swings both ways. We now have a very big advantage in the work place. You might even consider featuring this in your resume. "I write succinct and well thought out emails!"

Monday, December 06, 2004

I know Mercury is retrograde but this is proving to be an unusual one. For one thing many of my clients are making big decisions, even decisions about life and death. And for another thing there seems to be a lot of sexual liberation in the air.

Mercury has been retrograde at 26 degrees of Sagittarius which is conjunct Pluto and inconjnct or quincunx Saturn. This is makig a pretzel of your World Order. It is taking it and squeezing out what isnt't working and handing it back to you in a different shape.

We'll have to see if these decisions "stick" after December 29th but I'll bet they will.

Neptune and Jupiter are trine right now, near the very middle of their air signs, Libra and Aquarius. We are being dusted or gently "pelted" with wonderful new ways of looking at things. There is a sense of euphoria that accompanies these decisions and it is probably not misguided. Things really could be "that good" and most certainly they could be "better than this", so there's a willingness to open the mind. Voila!

Later in the month after Mercury goes direct, Venus and then Mars get involved in Sagittarius. all in all, this gives you an idea of what it's like to be a Sagittarian.

Do we enjoy doing business with other introverts? Yes!
Let's feel free to do business our way.

This is something Steve, a visitor to my site wrote about being an infp:

In my personal quest for self-discovery, it's websites like this that make me feel human. Feeling so different for nearly all my life, it's difficult to imagine that there may be others with similar experiences. I am a heterosexual man of 30, six foot, 200+ lbs, athletic and loved football, basketball all my life. But after reading the first three quotes I was instantly in tears. Can you identify with me? I can certainly identify with you.

What's it like to be an infp? How much harder can things be if you feel lost and alone, for pretty much your entire life? Just hoping someone will come and tap you on the shoulder to tell you that you're ok, and things are going to be ok. I write this and my eyes can't resist staring at the soft sketch below, and am amused at how easily I can be distracted by the simplest and beautiful things. Sigh...

Steve's business is called Computer Guy and he offers help with eMail, website site design and maintenance, networking and graphic design.

If you're an introvert with a business you'd like to promote on my BLOG, let me know. I will also be setting up a page on my site, an IntrovertZeXchange, coming soon.

Sunday, December 05, 2004

Low-Carb Eating

New York Times Is the Low-Carb Boom Over? discusses the failure of manufacturers to produce imitation foods like low-carb pasta.

I've learned that a person's eating habits really have change, their health-consciousness has really been raised, when they stop trying to imitate the bad old ways of eating and develop a genuine love for healthy foods. There are some really mouth wateringly delicious meals that are low carb by nature. One of the best ways to find them is to visit your local helath-food restaurant and educate your tastes as to what is possible in this new way of eating.

No, imitation pasta doesn't work. But replacing pasta with brown rice in your palate works very well!

How are you doing this holiday in keeping fit and eating right? Remember to stay focused during the holidays. They will pass but the habits we develop for conscious eating are ours for a lifetime of good health.

Swami Chakradhari, the world famous Swami, will be hosting a private evening with us in La Mesa Sunday, December 18th, just in time to make your holidays really spiritual. Don't miss this chance to meet with Swami in a small group setting. Swami will talk about peace, love and spiritual enlightenment.

Please let me know if you'd like to attend and I'll give you directions. It's 7 to 9 pm on Sunday, December 28th at a lovely private home in La Mesa. Swami ji suggests a donation of $100 but will be happy with what you can comfortably afford. Email me for directions and to RSVP.

Ingrid Cordeiro Esthetics

Does this retrograde have you feeling bogged down ... too much air and noise pollution?
Here's a great way to take a break. Browse IngridCordeiro.com and learn about some really outstanding new face care products.

Here's a picture of Ingrid at work in her salon in Boston.

I've been using Ingrid Cordeiro's products and am so pleased with them, I'm sure you will be, too. Especially if you like natural! I'm very happy now when someone tells me my face glows. It's from Ingrid's skin care products. And believe me, she is such a pleasure to work with. When you visit her site, you'll be interacting with her personally for all your skin care concerns. No hype, no rush, no pressure. She really listens, gives a realistic appraisal and makes suggestions ... it's as easy as that.

Saturday, December 04, 2004

Feeling overwhelmed by this Mercury Retrograde? It goes on til Decmber 19th so here's a very nice nice Meditation from a friend. It is especially helpful for the "J" type introverts among us.

Here is what I did this morning. I put in the Bliss CD, and did the inner smile meditation, but it could be any meditation you like.

As I listened to the music I felt the energy of heaven entering my crown chakra and cleansing my body or within me of any thoughts about myself, plans, judgements, etc. I felt my personality washing down through my being and out the bottom of my body or feet.

So, every single thing about myself, everything I think about myself, every preference of mine, I visualized draining out of me like water drains out of a sink.

So I am opening and emptying to be filled up with God.

After the meditation, I just let myself be.

No pressure to do anything at all, to think anything at all, or be anything in particular.

You have success with letting yourself be, so do it. You may need a break in communications with loved ones and others this weekend. If so, that is fine.

Let your whole life, all worries, all cares, all thoughts of others, planning, everything drain out of you. This is a letting not a doing. So you are opening the drain and letting it all wash down the pipe. You are just watching in stillness as everything drains away, and you become totally dependent on spirit to move your body and talk. There is no more You in charge.

We have been using our minds heavily the past couple of days to plan. It is now time to give the mind a rest and come back to it only when we feel lead to do so from the heart.

Let everything drain out of you. Devote the next few days to this and just be in the most open spacious way. Don't do anything you do not wish to do. Give yourself persmission to just drift like a boat in the sea of the Beloved. Oh! Get lots and lots of sleep... take naps... rest and get some quality time alone in silence...
The Story of the Sibylline Books
I just love this legend from ancient Rome where it was part of their heritage and culture. The "old woman" being referred to was the Sybil, the Oracle. Sometimes I feel like this when I try and share some genuine insight or wisdom. I also have realized as I get older that some of the really golden opportunities in life come in packages like this, hard to believe! And if we pass them over, they may return but will be more costly. It is necessary, therefore, to maintain an openness, a certain cultivated or calculated innocence, so that one does not miss these chances as being "too good to be true". This is the wisdom to "The Fool", the Tarot card kind of fool.
It is also true that valuable things can come in strange packages. One needs to develop eyes to see.

This legend has been told and retold for a thousand years. One the favorite versions is in I, Claudius by Robert Graves. However, I found this version on an Australian website and can't tell who attribute it to. As you'll see in the readers' comments this was apparently quoted from The Last Chance to See..., a book by Douglas Adams (Hitchhiker's Guide) and Mark Carwardine, a book about rare and endangered species. So here it is a parable about diminishing resources and , again, human blindness.
The story of the Sybilline books concerns an ancient city - it doesn't matter where it was or what it was called [yes it does, it was Rome] - it was a thriving, prosperous city set in the middle of a large plain. One summer, while the people of the city were busy thriving and prospering away, a strange old beggar woman arrived at the gates carrying twelve large books, which she offered to sell them. She said that the books contained all the knowledge and all the wisdom of the world, and that she would let the city have all twelve of them in return for a single sack of gold.

The people of the city thought this was a very funny idea. They said she obviously had no conception of the value of gold and that probably the best thing was for her to go away again.
This she agreed to do, but first, she said, she was going to destroy half of the books in front of them. She built a small bonfire, burnt six of the books of all knowledge and all wisdom in the sight of the people of the city and then went on her way.

Winter came and went, a hard winter, but the city just about managed to flourish through it and then, the following summer the old woman was back.

'Oh, you again,' said the people of the city. 'How's the knowledge and wisdom going?'

'Six books,' she said, 'just six left. Half of all the knowledge and wisdom in the world. Once again I am offering to sell them to you.'

'Oh, yes?' sniggered the people of the city.

'Only the price has changed.'

'Not surprised.'

'Two sacks of gold.'

'What?'

'Two sacks of gold for the six remaining books of knowledge and wisdom. Take it or leave it.'

'It seems to us,' said the people of the city, 'that you can't be very wise or knowledgeable yourself or you would realise that you can't just go around quadrupling an already outrageous price in a buyer's market. If that's the sort of knowledge and wisdom you're peddling then, frankly, you can keep it at any price.'

'Do you want them or not?'

'No.'

'Very well. I will trouble you for a little firewood.'

She built another bonfire, and burnt three of the remaining books in front of them and then set off back across the plain.

That night one or two curious people from the city sneaked out and sifted through the embers to see if they could salvage the odd page or two, but the fire had burnt very thoroughly and the old woman had raked the ashes. There was nothing.

Another hard winter took its toll on the city and they had a little trouble with famine and disease, but trade was good and they were in reasonably good shape again by the following summer when, once again, the old woman appeared.

'You're early this year,' they said to her.

'Less to carry,' she explained, showing them the three books she was still carrying. 'A quarter of all the knowledge and wisdom in the world. Do you want it?'

'What's the price?'

'Four sacks of gold.'

'You're completely mad, old woman. Apart from anything else our economy's going through a bit of a sticky patch at the moment. Sacks of gold are completely out of the question.'

'Firewood, please.'

'Now wait a minute,' said the people of the city, 'this isn't doing anybody any good. We've been thinking about all this and we've put together a small committee to have a look at these books of yours. Let us evaluate them for a few months, see if they're worth anything to us, and when you come back next year perhaps we can put in some kind of a reasonable offer. We are not talking sacks of gold here, though.'

The old woman shook her head. 'No,' she said. 'Bring me the firewood.'

'It will cost you.'

'No matter,' said the woman, with a shrug. 'The books will burn quite well by themselves.'

So saying she set about shredding two of the books into pieces which then burnt easily. She set off across the plain and left the people of the city to face another year.

She was back in the late spring.

'Just the one left,' she said, putting it down on the ground in front of her. 'So I was able to bring my own firewood.'

'How much?' said the people of the city.

'Sixteen sacks of gold.'

'We'd only budgeted for eight.'

'Take it or leave it.'

'Wait here.'

The people of the city went off into a huddle and returned half an hour later.

'Sixteen sacks is all we've got left,' they pleaded. 'Times are hard. You must leave us with something.'

The old woman just hummed to herself as she started to pile the kindling together.

'All right!' they cried at last, opened up the gates of the city and let out two oxcarts, each laden with eight sacks of gold, 'but it had better be good.'

'Thank you,' said the old woman, 'it is. And you should have seen the rest of it.'

She led the two oxcarts away across the plain with her, and left the people of the city to survive as best they could with the one remaining twelfth of all the knowledge and wisdom that had been in the world.


The Sibyl (there were four Michelangelo depicted on the ceiling of fhe Sistine Chapel and this is one of my favorites). "The" Sibyl was actually a priestess and changed through the years but she, different women, was actually called "THE" Sibyl.
A small apologia for my lack of delirious celebration at Christmas. A quote from Susan B Anthony:

Sooner or later we all discover that the important moments in life are not the advertised ones, not the birthdays, the graduations, the weddings, not the great goals achieved. The real milestones are less prepossessing. They come to the door of memory.

I like to celebrate Christmas, give gifts, feel gratitude, feel love and warmth, every day of the year and most of all when I feel like it, spontaneously and genuinely. I resist the formalized commercialized holiday now called "Christmas".

Things I love about the season: the lights, the music, live performances of Handel's Messiah and Nutcracker, beautiful Christmas sweaters on other people (my own is quiet and low ey), sparkles, sequins and the color red. I also love decorated Christmas trees.

I like the special drinks at Starbucks and the gingerbread they have there. I like it when I make Xmas cookies and I also like it when I don't.

I prefer Christmas Eve to Christmas morning. There are no little children in my family at the moment so you understand that all of this will change the minute there are little ones around!!
Creating Fascination is one of the Things It Does
but can introverts be exuberant, too? [YES!!!]
a review full of interesting comments by William Kowinski, the author of The Malling of America


Exuberance : The Passion for Life
by Kay Redfield Jamison
KNOPF; 405 PAGES, $24.95
click book cover to order from amazon.com

Excerpted from Kowinski's review:
Teddy Roosevelt had it, as did Louis Armstrong, John Muir, Mr. Toad, Winston Churchill, Mary Poppins, P.T. Barnum, Carl Sagan and, on occasion, Snoopy. Since starting to read this book, I noticed others elsewhere applying it to Rabelais and Capt. Kirk. The "outrageous ardor" called exuberance is the subject of Kay Redfield Jamison's rich new book.

... Jamison explores the idea and its implications mostly through people. Many of these exuberant achievers (and fictional characters) are familiar, and they are all appropriately fascinating -- for creating fascination is one of the things that exuberance does.

"I believe exuberance is incomparably more important than we acknowledge, " she writes. "Exuberant people take in the world and act upon it differently than those who are less lively and engaged. They hold their ideas with passion and delight, and they act upon them with dispatch. ... Exuberance is a peculiarly pleasurable state, and in that pleasure is power."
  • continually renewed fascination, joy and love.
  • natural
  • found in the play of animals
  • basic human activities, such as dance
  • has survival value, especially for the whole
  • is contagious
  • can energize group endeavors to heights of creativity and performance
  • can help overcome doubts and obstacles

This book seems an outgrowth of Jamison's earlier Touched with Fire: Manic-Depressive Illness and the Artistic Temperament. She sees exuberance within a dynamic continuum, with dangers at both ends. "Enthusiasm shares a border with fanaticism, and joy with hysteria; exuberance lives in uncomfortable proximity to mania." Ultimately, it is the effective continuum that counts. "Our species, like most, is well served by a diversity of temperaments, a variety of energies and moods."

Exuberance invites excess, so cautions are appropriate. Jamison is perhaps too quick to identify exuberance with extraversion, either as a Jungian category or even in its popular sense as an outgoing personality. The great 19th century scientist Michael Faraday is one of her examples of an exuberant teacher, but Jung classifies him as an introvert. [emphasis mine]
end of quotation from Kowinski

I found this comment of particular interest. "While exuberance may be mysteriously inborn, it can be either nurtured or discouraged. It's striking how many exuberant achievers in this book recall a childhood of unstructured play, in the embrace of nature."

Friday, December 03, 2004

Would you like to treat yourself to something really, really special.
Ingrid Cordeiro of Boston has the most incredible selected face products. You can learn more at her website, IngridCordeiro.com I use these products myself and to say I am thrilled with them would be an understatement.



Letter from my father when I was 5 years old, dated March 23, 1949:

Aunt Jo-Ann sent us two of your spelling papers last week. It is wonderful that you can spell so nicely. You are paying attention at least sometimes, I guess, and Jo-Ann is a fine teacher. Why don't you write a letter to Mommy and me with some help from Aunt Jo-Ann. Jus a short little letter to show me how much you can write.

Learning to write is very hard. After all, it took us thousands of years of evolution.

The Sagittarius aspect of the Artist quoted from ZeroPointTripod

Discipline is not the only distinction between the true artist and the dabbler or dilettante. To subject oneself to hard work and the evaluation of one's fellow man is no small accomplishment.

The development of artistic insight rather than an externalization of one's specific neurosis is another. One must combine the innate curiosity and vitality of youth with the maturity and dedication of experience.

In her classic on the archetype of Eternal Youth, Puer Aeternus, Marie Louise vonFranz discusses the artist and puer complex.

In the really great artist there is always a puer at first, but it can go further. It is a question of feeling-judgment. If one ceases to be an artist when ceasing to be puer, then one was never really an artist. Objectifying the puer, is only the first step. Puer has to learn to carry on with the work he does not like, not only with work where he is carried away by great enthusiasm, which is something everybody can do ... being carried away by a festival of work. Puer has to kick himself again and again to take up the boring job through sheer will power.

Puer is also the impulse to feel special, precocious, or gifted. The complex is a desire. What, then, are the psychological criteria for an "artist"?

VonFranz lists some in her work, Creation Myths.

...these four factors --

  • originality
  • consistency
  • intensity
  • subtlety --

... (show) the differences between someone who has creative fantasies and someone who is only spinning neurotic nonesense ... the continuity of devotion an individual is capable of giving his fantasy is very important and shows the difference between someone who is gifted with creative fantasy and somebody sucked into sterile unconscious material.

There are also certain psychological types more adapted or inclined toward artistic expression. Different types -- both introverts and extroverts -- pursue different areas of art, such as fine art or performance art.

Many artists are Dionysian temperaments strong on Sensation-Perceiving (SP).

This penchant for acting on impulse contains a seeming paradox, for SPs, living only for immediate action, become the world's great performing artists: the virtuosos of art, entertainment, and adventure. The great painters, instrumentalists, vocalists, dancers, sculptors, photographers, athletes, hunters, racers, gamblers -- all need the skills which come only from excited concentration on an activity for long periods. No other type can mobilize what virtuosity takes: untold hours of continuous action. ... In a sense the SP does not work, for work implies production, completion, and accomplishment. The SP has no such desire for closure, completion, finishing. He is process-oriented. What ensues from his action is mere product, mere outcome, mere result, and is incidental. Thus, the SP's "work" is essentially play.(Kiersey, Bates, 1978)

In Myers-Briggs terms, ISFP is known as "the Artist"; ESFP as "Entertainer"; INFJ as "Author"; INTO as "Architect"; ENTP as "Inventor"; ISTP as "Artisan"; INFP the "Poet" while ESTP is a born "Promoter".



This is the chart of fabulous Tina Turner and this is my Ode to Sagittarius!
Tina Turner turns 65 and still performing, click here.

"I will never give in to old age until I become old. And I'm not old yet!" -Tina Turner

Biographical information quoted from AskMen.com
Anna Mae Bullock (Tina's real name) was born on November 26, 1938, in Nutbush, Tennessee. [Mutbush is one of the songs I love to work out to.] She is the daughter of a sharecropper and soon became an international female rock star with her powerful voice, her unforgettable story, and let's not forget, her remarkable trademark legs.

Everything started when she attended a St-Louis high school when Tina met Ike Turner, a well-established R&B bandleader (Turner's Kings of Rhythm). She started to sing with the band and soon got involved with the saxophone player and had her first son, Raymond. She quickly moved into Ike's house, began a serious a relationship, and eventually gave birth to her second baby. Tina and Ike later married in a quick Tijuana ceremony. This alliance turned out to be illegal because Ike never bothered to divorce his first wife.

Their marriage marked the beginning of a long, cruel journey for the talented singer. Tina's life was completely controlled by Ike who forced her to work a grueling tour schedule and beat her if she disobeyed his orders. Tina' s energy, dynamism and grueling voice got her on top of the pop-rock act with hits such as River Deep Mountain High and Proud Mary.

She acquired her quest for worldwide fame when she opened for the Rolling Stones in 1969. She made such a good impression that Mick Jagger still uses some of her on-stage moves in his current acts. Tina soon had enough of Ike's possessive behavior, and after a failed suicide attempt, walked out on him with thirty-six cents and a gas station credit card. It didn't look like a promising career move for Tina; many believed she would disappear from the music scene without Ike's musical weight supporting her.

She didn't fight for any financial compensation and decided to live in total freedom. [this is very Sagittarian] Tina slowly climbed her way back into the music scene by working small time nightclub gigs six days a week. Joining strength with Australian manager Roger Davies, Tina released the multi-platinum Grammy-winning album Private Dancer in 1984, with hit singles like What's Love Got To Do With It? and Better Be Good to Me.

Tina also hit the big screen playing a role in The Who's Tommy. She also hit it big alongside Mel Gibson in Mad Max: Beyond The Thunder Dome, both with her acting role and her hit theme song. Next, she embarked on a twenty-five-country Break Every Rule tour in 1987, and dominated with very high ticket sales around the world. Tina dominated the music scene not only with her singing talent, but by being the "Comeback Queen" with tremendous on-stage presence as she bopped around with her micro-mini skirt, high heels, and leonine mane. She also came out with an autobiography, I Tina, which led to the hit film What's Love Got To Do With It.

With fans such as David Bowie, Eric Clapton, Elton John, Rod Stewart, Bryan Adams, and Mark Knopfler, she has become one of the most accomplished performers of her time. And believe it or not, after more than thirty years of career, she still goes on stage reaching millions of fans with her singing and heartfelt dancing. If we can come away with one lesson from this star's life, it's that no matter how much adversity one goes through - their Wildest Dreams can indeed come true!

What else do you need to know?

To learn more about the Sagittarian energy that Tina Turner personifies, click here.

Here is a website that discusses the Temperance Card in the Tarot deck, ruled by Sagittarius. It discusses the connection between art and quest. CLICK HERE.
Happy Holidays. Hope you can get yourself free like Tina did. Everybody wins.

Thursday, December 02, 2004

Here are the results of the psychi cexperiment I ran last month.

For those who answered the psychic questions ... here are the responses. If you didn't get around the answering it, you may still be interested in the others.

The question was posed by a client in another state who asked, "Where did the silk come from?" Not being psychic myself, I thought, well, I'll toss it out there to the most psychic people I know. I later discovered he was told the silk came from England but doubts it. It was yardage to decorate in his bedroom and it seems to be in separate dye lots, etc.

Here are the eight answers I received. Thank you one and all!!!

  1. 1. It's up in the air.

  2. something about dog park

  3. something about the weather. I had to giggle because then I thought or My Fair Lady and the thing about "the rain in Spain falls mainly on the plain"

  4. something “racey”

  5. Picture of a green garden with trees

  6. Capricorn
    Cream
    Caterpillar
    Weaving
    Rolling
    Laughing
    Crying
    Making Up
    Then, the words Emperor's New Clothes.
    Rome
    YOU (the word)
    Happiness
    Many places far away but, not close enough...

  7. "I've found you a thousand times; I guess you've done the same.
    But then we lose each other. It's just like a children's game.
    And as I find you here again, the thought runs through my mind.
    Our love is like a circle. Let's go 'round one more time."

    I think it's possible the answer to your question has to do with maintaining a firm knowledge of yourself and your integrity through vastly changing circumstances ... and being willing to take risks for the sake of challenge and joy ... knowing everything in life always comes full circle and you will always wind up at some version of "the starting point" over and over again.

    (Of course, it's entirely possible the answer to your question is simply something like "the color green." Which, in its fashion now triggers memories of Kermit the Frog singing about how "It's not easy being green." Kind of the same theme there, too. Self image. Personal integrity. And being firm in the knowledge of who you are, no matter what.)

  8. How does one discover the gift of the Given as given?

Thanks so much for your participation. Your feedback to this is welcome!! If you sent me an answer and it isn't up here, let me know and I'll add it.
Is this a message for someone? The Queen of Swords

From tarot.com: The most emotionally honest people you have known have also been the most independent and self-reliant. The Queen of Swords suggests that somewhere in your past you had an excellent role model available to you who was an assertive self-defined person. She spoke her piercing insights in a clear and truthful way, without sparing anyone, not even herself. Having known such a lucid being is very helpful to you. That person's voice still speaks to your subconscious, reminding you that you know what is going on and what needs to be done. Increase the volume of that internal voice, so that it's with you on a regular basis, because this is part of your inherited wisdom. This voice is helping you be centered, define your boundaries, get ready to state your truth and assert what you want and need. Apply this quality to your current situation.

Wednesday, December 01, 2004

Please don't let the holidays get you down. I'm here doing readings alll during the holidays.

When family issues come up it can bring you down! Email any time for a reading and let's stay centered over the holidays.

Support is also available for low-carb healthy dining during the hollidays.
Amnesty International Global Write-a-Thon in San Diego
Saturday, December 11, 2004 at The Living Room

Sevim Yetkiner


If you live in San Diego, please stop by the Amnesty International Global Write-a-Thon at The Living Room, 5900 El Cajon Blvd. just west of College Avenue on Saturday, December 11, 2004.

Sevim Yetkiner, a human rights defender in Turkey, attributes her swift release from prison to the pressure of the letter writing campaign Amnesty International launched on her behalf.

Join thousands of concerned Amnesty International (AI) members and friends around the world participating in AI's Annual Global Write-a-thon, an international event initiated by activitsts at AI-Poland to commemorate International Human Rights Day (December 10th). Last year, AI activists from over thirty countries wrote letters during the