Sometimes, accepting things in life is simply a matter of perception. Take
for instance the cell phone. Unlike most introverts, I love my cell phone.
Okay, I hated it at first, too. About 8 years ago a builder that I was doing
consulting work for bought me one. Over time, I learned to love it - not
because I suddenly developed the urge to chat but because I learned to use
it as a tool.
Connectivity has reduced my stress in many ways:
1. Because I am always connected, my subcontractors can reach me when they
have an issue. I can avoid driving/rushing to the jobsite (which I hate) to
meet with everyone.
2. Because I am always connected, I can use my intuitive strengths to resolve
problems before they occur. I am connected to my associates and when ideas
hit me, I can contact them as necessary.
3. Because I am always connected, I can avoid communication problems and
avoid face-to-face confrontations, which I hate.
4. Because I am always connected, my friends and associates can always reach
me. I am an INFJ counselor, and directing my friends and associates is a
big part of who I am. I can have brief but effective conversations without
having to leave my home or work or wherever. Better yet, I don't have to
worry about visitors.
I really think that controlled use of the cell phone has allowed me to find
more recharging time. I am able to do more things, such as take Buddy (my
Yellow Lab) to a secluded beach without shirking my responsibilities. I can
be detached but available. Most of my friends and associates have long-ago
accepted that I am not the social chatty type. They only call when it is
important.
David DeVaughn
David DeVaughn is an INFJ that got tired of fighting the corporate world and is now an entrepreneur living in Traverse City, Michigan.
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